Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-21-25

Broken promises, the abandonment of a parent, abuse of trust, unfaithful mates, untrue gossip, physical or emotional violence are just some of the acts of injustice we can face in this life; they all leave deep wounds and pain. Even though God has promised to be our Vindicator, letting him handle things when we have been wronged can be a difficult challenge. Oh, we trust God for sure, right? Yet, we know God’s timing is different; he may not deal with things right away. God’s perspective of a situation is entirely righteous bringing to the forefront the motives of every heart; he may not deal with the situation the way we would prefer. God’s goal is to make us stronger and persevering in this life; he may call us to forgive an offense without receiving an apology or a change in that person. God’s way is not a “get even” process; he is pure righteousness.

In our passage today from Proverbs 20, we are reminded about the fallen nature of humanity and the pain that sinful flesh can inflict. We want to see justice be served when we are harmed; it is not wrong to want justice, but we must allow God to execute it. Scripture reminds us it is God’s place to judge, punish, justify, and vindicate (Ro 12:19). God alone is pure and without sin, so he can cause our innocence to be radiant with his glory before others should that be his plan.

If we do not leave injustice with God, we will find ourselves with bitter souls [a sin]. We will hold onto grudges and spend our energy condemning others. Instead of living in this awful soup of negativity, we can trust God to deal with our hearts, the hearts of others involved, choose to look at the situation with the eyes of mercy, and forgive (1 Pet 2:21-23). Making a list of wrongs is not Jesus; nor is being happy when those who have harmed us get harmed by others. The Wisdom of God—Jesus— calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Mat 5:44). If Jesus could look at those who were murdering him and ask the Father to forgive them, we can choose love and receive grace for the things we face.

Proverbs 20 NLT
1
Wine produces mockers; alcohol leads to brawls.
    Those led astray by drink cannot be wise.

The king’s fury is like a lion’s roar;
    to rouse his anger is to risk your life.

Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor;
    only fools insist on quarreling.

Those too lazy to plow in the right season
    will have no food at the harvest.

Though good advice lies deep within the heart,
    a person with understanding will draw it out.

Many will say they are loyal friends,
    but who can find one who is truly reliable?

The godly walk with integrity;
    blessed are their children who follow them.

When a king sits in judgment, he weighs all the evidence,
    distinguishing the bad from the good.

Who can say, “I have cleansed my heart;
    I am pure and free from sin?”
10 
False weights and unequal measures—
    the Lord detests double standards of every kind.
11 
Even children are known by the way they act,
    whether their conduct is pure, and whether it is right.
12 
Ears to hear and eyes to see—
    both are gifts from the Lord.
13 
If you love sleep, you will end in poverty.
    Keep your eyes open, and there will be plenty to eat!
14 
The buyer haggles over the price, saying, “It’s worthless,”
    then brags about getting a bargain!
15 
Wise words are more valuable
    than much gold and many rubies.
16 
Get security from someone who guarantees a stranger’s debt.
    Get a deposit if he does it for foreigners.
17 
Stolen bread tastes sweet,
    but it turns to gravel in the mouth.
18 
Plans succeed through good counsel;
    don’t go to war without wise advice.
19 
A gossip goes around telling secrets,
    so don’t hang around with chatterers.
20 
If you insult your father or mother,
    your light will be snuffed out in total darkness.
21 
An inheritance obtained too early in life
    is not a blessing in the end.
22 
Don’t say, “I will get even for this wrong.”
    Wait for the Lord to handle the matter.
23 
The Lord detests double standards;
    he is not pleased by dishonest scales.
24 
The Lord directs our steps,
    so why try to understand everything along the way?
25 
Don’t trap yourself by making a rash promise to God
    and only later counting the cost.
26 
A wise king scatters the wicked like wheat,
    then runs his threshing wheel over them.
27 
The Lord’s light penetrates the human spirit,
    exposing every hidden motive.
28 
Unfailing love and faithfulness protect the king;
    his throne is made secure through love.
29 
The glory of the young is their strength;
    the gray hair of experience is the splendor of the old.
30 
Physical punishment cleanses away evil;
    such discipline purifies the heart.

Prayer: Lord, to guard our hearts against bitterness and resentment for the pain we have endured from others, we give you our emotions and surrender our right to get even. We forgive others, will wait for the justice you declare, and call for the Spirit to heal and restore our souls. You have taught us to forgive as we have been forgiven and we want to honor your Wisdom. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-19-25

Much of what Solomon writes in Proverbs 18 reiterates many things he has shared in previous chapters. Yet, every time I read through these Wisdom points, I gain something deeper in meaning from them as they relate to my life. Sometimes the passages are affirming and sometimes they are convicting. I have especially valued everything relating to that big muscle—the tongue. Today, I truly treasure the Wisdom shared about active listening, friendship, and counseling.

Pastoral care—providing emotional and spiritual support—is a bit different then pastoral counseling—more specialized emotional and psychological support—but both require pastors to rest with discernment in the healing work of God’s Spirit. Listening is key, so that is where the pastor must begin. When people open up to talk, it requires eye contact, focused listening, and empathy—the ability to place one’s self in that person’s shoes. We must fight the urge to chime in while a person is trying to share from the wounds in their hearts. The Spirit will guide the conversation.

In our passage today from Proverbs 18, it clearly does not take a pastor to share compassionate or empathetic listening and care. You can be an emotional and spiritual support for others, too. God invites all of us to find our refuge in his name; salvation is found in no other name (Ro 10:13).

As we humble ourselves seeking the miraculous help of God to bring healing, we find the Lord waiting to honor us with his love, friendship, and blessing. “There are friends who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother” (Pro 18:24). Jesus is a Friend who stands at heaven’s court and reaches out to love and heal us. Jesus is the Healer, because Jesus is a Friend who offers pure love and vows to never leave us. Healing always flows from him as we agree in his love. So, when 2-3 are gathered in his name, Christ is in the midst ready to extend truth, love, and grace (Mat 18:18-20).

Proverbs 18 NLT
1
Unfriendly people care only about themselves;
    they lash out at common sense.

Fools have no interest in understanding;
    they only want to air their own opinions.

Doing wrong leads to disgrace,
    and scandalous behavior brings contempt.

Wise words are like deep waters;
    wisdom flows from the wise like a bubbling brook.

It is not right to acquit the guilty
    or deny justice to the innocent.

Fools’ words get them into constant quarrels;
    they are asking for a beating.

The mouths of fools are their ruin;
    they trap themselves with their lips.

Rumors are dainty morsels
    that sink deep into one’s heart.

A lazy person is as bad as
    someone who destroys things.
10 
The name of the Lord is a strong fortress;
    the godly run to him and are safe.
11 
The rich think of their wealth as a strong defense;
    they imagine it to be a high wall of safety.
12 
Haughtiness goes before destruction;
    humility precedes honor.
13 
Spouting off before listening to the facts
    is both shameful and foolish.
14 
The human spirit can endure a sick body,
    but who can bear a crushed spirit?
15 
Intelligent people are always ready to learn.
    Their ears are open for knowledge.
16 
Giving a gift can open doors;
    it gives access to important people!
17 
The first to speak in court sounds right—
    until the cross-examination begins.
18 
Flipping a coin can end arguments;
    it settles disputes between powerful opponents.
19 
An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city.
    Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars.
20 
Wise words satisfy like a good meal;
    the right words bring satisfaction.
21 
The tongue can bring death or life;
    those who love to talk will reap the consequences.
22 
The man who finds a wife finds a treasure,
    and he receives favor from the Lord.
23 
The poor plead for mercy;
    the rich answer with insults.
24 
There are “friends” who destroy each other,
    but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.

Prayer: Lord, thank you for this lesson today about the power of friendship, love, and empathy. Lead us to be healers of one another. Help us to care deeply and listen carefully to the hearts that carry wounds and need the delivering Savior. We desire to control our tongues and become people who listen more than we talk. Holy Spirit, give us eyes to see and ears to hear how we can be a blessing and a true friend in Christ. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-18-25

Learning what it means to worship the Lord our God is the purpose of Scripture. God reveals himself on the pages though his miraculous work, pure character, and the people he highlights for faith. Since the beginning of our reading in the Wisdom Book of Proverbs, we have learned our worship of God is reflected in our practical lifestyle choices.

When human beings choose a foolish lifestyle [void of Wisdom], they end up isolating themselves farther and farther from living in the Truth. In stepping away from a humble posture before God, people become destructive, judgmental, critical, and opinionated—fools. This isolation pushes any kind of conscience or conviction to the side; people do not see their actions as self-serving or their mouths like machine guns shooting out careless and condemning words that wound the soul of others. Fools think the worst and act accordingly; becoming absorbed with self. Living foolishly is always a temptation, so Solomon shares with his son and writes about it in some form in every chapter, so God’s people will better understand the ways of Wisdom.

No matter what generation in which we live, we can choose to be foolish or wise; everyone has the opportunity to choose between living for good or evil. Although, as human beings, we will always struggle against sin in thought, word, or deed, we do not have the right to simply say what we want and then apologize later. In time after repeated harm, no one is listening to us; we are too caustic and untrustworthy with their feelings.

There is a time to confront a person and time to be quiet; Wisdom knows the difference. Arguments, quarrels, and outbursts of anger show very little self-control. According to Solomon, a fool has a closed mind to the sound judgment shared by others while at the same time has a big mouth. This is another picture of pride. It’s a human problem and for this reason James reminds Christ’s [Wisdom] followers, “Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry” (1:19).

How about gossip? People tend to love juicy gossip—negative information—and they can hang onto it for a very longtime; long after it may even be proven false. Gossip is an addiction and it destroys lives and relationships. Gossip has been described as a “delicacy” to the appetites of fools. So, when those seeking to grow in Wisdom hear gossip, what is the proper response? We need to speak up when others are put down; at those times a reputation is being destroyed. So speak up in righteousness, because in Christ we are full of truth and grace. Let’s remember, in Christ, our delicacy [food] is to do the will of the Father (John 19:30).

Waging war against sin by acting in righteousness is Wisdom’s call to every believer, because it delivers one from evil. The words and ways of a wise person brings forth blessing. Foolishness delivers dishonor, shame, and disgrace in time leaving a person abandoned in desperate need of the Savior. Certainly, Jesus is right there to bring that salvation, but if a person continues on the path of foolishness, the consequences become more and more severe.

The Ten Commandments given by God are love orders, because God cares about our relationship with himself and with others. I ran across the Ten Commandments of Human Relations [by Robert G. Lee 1927-1960] while reading today and thought I would share them with you:
Speak to people
Smile at people
Call people by name
Be friendly and helpful
Be genuinely interested in people
Be generous with praise and cautious with criticism
Be considerate with the feelings of others
Be alert to give service
Learn to trust people
Have a sense of humor

Scripture reveals Jesus emulated all of these things throughout his brief human life on earth. The words of a fool can become a trap for his life; words can bring about ruin and destruction. It may take a lifetime to build a good reputation, but very quickly that can be destroyed when a person forgets the need to tame the tongue.

Proverbs 17 NLT
1
Better a dry crust eaten in peace
    than a house filled with feasting—and conflict.

A wise servant will rule over the master’s disgraceful son
    and will share the inheritance of the master’s children.

Fire tests the purity of silver and gold,
    but the Lord tests the heart.

Wrongdoers eagerly listen to gossip;
    liars pay close attention to slander.

Those who mock the poor insult their Maker;
    those who rejoice at the misfortune of others will be punished.

Grandchildren are the crowning glory of the aged;
    parents are the pride of their children.

Eloquent words are not fitting for a fool;
    even less are lies fitting for a ruler.

A bribe is like a lucky charm;
    whoever gives one will prosper!

Love prospers when a fault is forgiven,
    but dwelling on it separates close friends.
10 
A single rebuke does more for a person of understanding
    than a hundred lashes on the back of a fool.
11 
Evil people are eager for rebellion,
    but they will be severely punished.
12 
It is safer to meet a bear robbed of her cubs
    than to confront a fool caught in foolishness.
13 
If you repay good with evil,
    evil will never leave your house.
14 
Starting a quarrel is like opening a floodgate,
    so stop before a dispute breaks out.
15 
Acquitting the guilty and condemning the innocent—
    both are detestable to the Lord.
16 
It is senseless to pay to educate a fool,
    since he has no heart for learning.
17 
A friend is always loyal,
    and a brother is born to help in time of need.
18 
It’s poor judgment to guarantee another person’s debt
    or put up security for a friend.
19 
Anyone who loves to quarrel loves sin;
    anyone who trusts in high walls invites disaster.
20 
The crooked heart will not prosper;
    the lying tongue tumbles into trouble.
21 
It is painful to be the parent of a fool;
    there is no joy for the father of a rebel.
22 
A cheerful heart is good medicine,
    but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.
23 
The wicked take secret bribes
    to pervert the course of justice.
24 
Sensible people keep their eyes glued on wisdom,
    but a fool’s eyes wander to the ends of the earth.
25 
Foolish children bring grief to their father
    and bitterness to the one who gave them birth.
26 
It is wrong to punish the godly for being good
    or to flog leaders for being honest.
27 
A truly wise person uses few words;
    a person with understanding is even-tempered.
28 
Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent;
    with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.

Prayer: Father, please help us focus not just on our interests but upon the interests of others. Help us to listen and talk less. We desire for our words to be a flowing river of life for others, so we ask for you, Holy Spirit, to put a watch over our mouths. As well, please guard us against pushing through our agendas at the sake and well-being of others; you love the motivation and work ethic we have to make a difference for the Kingdom, but how we do it is even more important. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-17-25

I am so grateful to be living as a citizen of the United States of America. Although I do not agree with many things that have been established by a variety of leadership over the years, I am blessed to be an American; a part of one nation under God. The United States is the world’s only remaining superpower. However, no matter how powerful a nation or a president may be, that leader must submit to the sovereign rule of God and his King [Messiah] or huge power issues will arise between God and country. As a nation, we must pray all the time for Oneness with God and keep our motives and plans in check by honoring him.

In our passage from Proverbs 16, today, we note God is the One in control and we must humbly trust him. God determines what is evil and he judges it, God saves and protects those who submit to his authority, and God rules not only a certain country he rules the world and we must remember it! God lays out what he wants and sovereignly brings it to pass.

Human beings have free-will; an example would be the choice to sin. Because of our fallen nature, we will always struggle to live without sin. So, God helps us to understand his view of righteousness and if we choose to confess and submit our lives and sin to him God will help us overcome what he does not accept as good for us.

When Scripture reminds us of God’s sovereignty, we may find certain things about it unbearable. To see and accept God’s sovereignty is to know that everything touching a person’s life is either authored or allowed by God. Yet, even in the midst of suffering, God has promised to bring good out of it.

Again, this is not a warm-fuzzy vision sometimes; the thoughts and ways of God can seem unfathomable (Is 55:8-9). For example, by the sovereign will of God, Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, so he could grow, develop, rise to power, and save many people from starvation (Gen 50:20). It certainly took Joseph awhile to see his life in view of the merciful and good work of God, but nonetheless, he came to understand and praise God for it.

Humanity has a responsibility to God, because some things human beings do are detestable, wicked/evil, and need atoning by Almighty God—the only One who can bring righteous change. If we submit our hearts to God, believers can be agents of change in many ways. Bowing to the authority and sovereignty of God helps us battle against human pride that desires to take credit rather than give credit to God. Yet, God will even use evil in human beings to accomplish his purposes.

Let’s share just a minute about pride [self-deception], because it is so destructive and foolish. We cannot follow our own heart, because we do not see the world properly like God. Our flesh and logic are contaminated by pride and foolishness. People make decisions based on feelings every day that ruin their lives (Pro 16:25). We need God’s Wisdom; otherwise, human beings tend to promote themselves or their agenda and shun godly instruction.

So, real power comes when God’s sovereignty and human responsibility work together to accomplish the righteous justice of God. We need to act in accordance with our King, make plans that further his Kingdom, work hard for the cause of love, depend upon the Holy Spirit’s help, and submit absolutely everything to God. Nothing escapes God’s knowledge, so he will judge that which is evil and reward that which is good! According to Proverbs 3:5-6, trusting the Lord with our whole hearts…will lead us away from pride and onto the humble and straight path [obedience to God].

Proverbs 16 NLT
1
We can make our own plans,
    but the Lord gives the right answer.

People may be pure in their own eyes,
    but the Lord examines their motives.

Commit your actions to the Lord,
    and your plans will succeed.

The Lord has made everything for his own purposes,
    even the wicked for a day of disaster.

The Lord detests the proud;
    they will surely be punished.

Unfailing love and faithfulness make atonement for sin.
    By fearing the Lord, people avoid evil.

When people’s lives please the Lord,
    even their enemies are at peace with them.

Better to have little, with godliness,
    than to be rich and dishonest.

We can make our plans,
    but the Lord determines our steps.
10 
The king speaks with divine wisdom;
    he must never judge unfairly.
11 
The Lord demands accurate scales and balances;
    he sets the standards for fairness.
12 
A king detests wrongdoing,
    for his rule is built on justice.
13 
The king is pleased with words from righteous lips;
    he loves those who speak honestly.
14 
The anger of the king is a deadly threat;
    the wise will try to appease it.
15 
When the king smiles, there is life;
    his favor refreshes like a spring rain.
16 
How much better to get wisdom than gold,
    and good judgment than silver!
17 
The path of the virtuous leads away from evil;
    whoever follows that path is safe.
18 
Pride goes before destruction,
    and haughtiness before a fall.
19 
Better to live humbly with the poor
    than to share plunder with the proud.
20 
Those who listen to instruction will prosper;
    those who trust the Lord will be joyful.
21 
The wise are known for their understanding,
    and pleasant words are persuasive.
22 
Discretion is a life-giving fountain to those who possess it,
    but discipline is wasted on fools.
23 
From a wise mind comes wise speech;
    the words of the wise are persuasive.
24 
Kind words are like honey—
    sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.
25 
There is a path before each person that seems right,
    but it ends in death.
26 
It is good for workers to have an appetite;
    an empty stomach drives them on.
27 
Scoundrels create trouble;
    their words are a destructive blaze.
28 
A troublemaker plants seeds of strife;
    gossip separates the best of friends.
29 
Violent people mislead their companions,
    leading them down a harmful path.
30 
With narrowed eyes, people plot evil;
    with a smirk, they plan their mischief.
31 
Gray hair is a crown of glory;
    it is gained by living a godly life.
32 
Better to be patient than powerful;
    better to have self-control than to conquer a city.
33 
We may throw the dice, [cast lots]
    but the Lord determines how they fall.

Prayer: Lord, we are so grateful for your counsel and authority, so we humbly offer our will to you, today. We love you and pursue your faithful care of us. Help us stand against a spirit of pride and stubbornness, so we are protected from evil. We pray for our nation to rise up in righteous revival to honor your Name. In humility, we pray and ask for your sovereign will to be done. In praise, we thank you for the abundant grace to provide the resources needed to take care of this nation, our people, and turn to help the world you so dearly love. As a country, may we seek to love you wholeheartedly, love our neighbors, and love ourselves. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-16-25

Biblical and godly encouragement is not simply extending affirming words that make a person feel better about himself or herself. Scripture teaches genuine encouragement develops one in humility [obedience to God], courage [facing the challenges in Christ’s strength], and hope [confident expectation] in God’s love and will for our lives. It’s taking God at his Word and helping others who need reassuring. Extending encouragement is like throwing a life-line of saving hope to sure up the courage and strength of others and help them press on in faith to lay hold of the grace of God for salvation and restoration. I am so grateful for the power of godly encouragement operating in our world, because so many people right now are desperate for it.

In our passage from Proverbs 15, today, we know a wise tongue is an encouraging and praying tongue. The sinful inclination of this world is to think the worse and verbalize it; to see only what we don’t like and what we think is wrong with people and things around us. But, not only should we never look at another human being and point out everything that seems glaringly wrong to us, we must look to encourage that person with the love of God and influence the righteous things God has prepared for his children to fulfill.

I was recently watching a brief recap of the confirmation hearing, involving Pete Hegseth for Defense Secretary, and some of the questions issued by several senators truly shocked me. I totally understand the importance of the inquiry into Major Hegseth’s qualifications, but my goodness God have mercy if each one of us was put under the magnifying glass of our failures; who could stand perfectly in righteousness for any job? Condemnation is not from Christ; it is Satan who is the accuser of God’s people and will not listen to a repentant heart or see the good that has followed a failure. Why couldn’t the questions focus on the proven qualifications of this person and what he may or may not bring of value to the job he is being considered to lead? The mercy we give is the mercy we receive (Mat 5:7).

So, the prayer lives of God’s people must be increased, because the devil is focused on destruction. According to God’s Wisdom through Solomon, “The Lord is far from the wicked, but he hears the prayers of the righteous” (Pro 15:29). I’m sure God hears every prayer and knows the motivation of every heart. However, prayers of faith in Christ heal the sick, forgive the sinner, and move us to live in the presence of Almighty God.

When believers and those seeking his will for salvation call upon him, great power is released that produces wonderful results (Ja 5:16). God accepted Christ’s sacrifice on our behalf as we are no longer condemned by God (Mat 27:46; Jo 3:16-17). Based on the mercy and blood of Jesus, the righteous are covered, forgiven, redeemed, and are being made whole by grace. We walk out of our failures and into the regenerating grace of Christ. Therefore, in humility, we should focus on what is good and with fear and trembling run from condemning someone else. Instead, let’s extend mercy and godly encouragement to others knowing the penalty of our sins has been paid.

Proverbs 15 NLT
1
A gentle answer deflects anger,
    but harsh words make tempers flare.

The tongue of the wise makes knowledge appealing,
    but the mouth of a fool belches out foolishness.

The Lord is watching everywhere,
    keeping his eye on both the evil and the good.

Gentle words are a tree of life;
    a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.

Only a fool despises a parent’s discipline;
    whoever learns from correction is wise.

There is treasure in the house of the godly,
    but the earnings of the wicked bring trouble.

The lips of the wise give good advice;
    the heart of a fool has none to give.

The Lord detests the sacrifice of the wicked,
    but he delights in the prayers of the upright.

The Lord detests the way of the wicked,
    but he loves those who pursue godliness.
10 
Whoever abandons the right path will be severely disciplined;
    whoever hates correction will die.
11 
Even Death and Destruction hold no secrets from the Lord.
    How much more does he know the human heart!
12 
Mockers hate to be corrected,
    so they stay away from the wise.
13 
A glad heart makes a happy face;
    a broken heart crushes the spirit.
14 
A wise person is hungry for knowledge,
    while the fool feeds on trash.
15 
For the despondent, every day brings trouble;
    for the happy heart, life is a continual feast.
16 
Better to have little, with fear for the Lord,
    than to have great treasure and inner turmoil.
17 
A bowl of vegetables with someone you love
    is better than steak with someone you hate.
18 
A hot-tempered person starts fights;
    a cool-tempered person stops them.
19 
A lazy person’s way is blocked with briers,
    but the path of the upright is an open highway.
20 
Sensible children bring joy to their father;
    foolish children despise their mother.
21 
Foolishness brings joy to those with no sense;
    a sensible person stays on the right path.
22 
Plans go wrong for lack of advice;
    many advisers bring success.
23 
Everyone enjoys a fitting reply;
    it is wonderful to say the right thing at the right time!
24 
The path of life leads upward for the wise;
    they leave the grave behind.
25 
The Lord tears down the house of the proud,
    but he protects the property of widows.
26 
The Lord detests evil plans,
    but he delights in pure words.
27 
Greed brings grief to the whole family,
    but those who hate bribes will live.
28 
The heart of the godly thinks carefully before speaking;
    the mouth of the wicked overflows with evil words.
29 
The Lord is far from the wicked,
    but he hears the prayers of the righteous.
30 
A cheerful look brings joy to the heart;
    good news makes for good health.
31 
If you listen to constructive criticism,
    you will be at home among the wise.
32 
If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself;
    but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.
33 
Fear of the Lord teaches wisdom;
    humility precedes honor.

Prayer: Lord, we have all experienced failures in life, so we want to thank you for your mercy, forgiveness, and for exhorting or encouraging us to press on to the high call of fulfilling your will and purpose for our lives. We thank you for the blood Jesus and a new beginning. Help us to focus on the things that are right more than focusing on the things that are wrong around us. Cause us to be godly encouragers, in the lives of others, who understand the humility and the power of obedience, confidence in your strength, and the hope of pleasing you. Thank you for the favor that covers us and qualifies us for whatever you send us to be and do. We pray for our country, the government, the confirmation process, and the transition of power. May your angels protect and position according to your will. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-15-25

Along with a plethora of choices we make each day, one of the biggest and overall most significant decisions we will make is whether we will be constructive or destructive in life that day. To be constructive is to see life from God’s perspective and seek to be a participant in the work of righteousness—First love is Jesus! To be destructive is to see only ourselves and how things effect us and then react from that perspective—First love is Self.

The world has missed how essential understanding constructive and destructive mindsets and behavior is to life and spiritual prosperity. Without Jesus—Wisdom—we are foolish and selfish people who think the only thing that matters is our path, plans, and our pleasure. To be selfish is to destroy one’s soul and life; a matter of self-imploding (Mat 16:26). If self is on the throne, all too soon a person can find himself or herself eating from the table of destruction that leads to spiritual death by seeing things from merely a human point of view. God wants to be the Author of our plans, because he is leading us on the righteous path of denying ourselves in order to genuinely love and care for others (Mat 16:24).

In our passage from Proverbs 14, today, we have a lot to digest, because there is a great deal being covered. Yet, it is always wise to focus on just a few things in particular, because otherwise it is like trying to drink from a firehose—overwhelming! So, let’s focus on faith and how Wisdom saves us from the destructive work of envy—the opposite of God’s love, because it misrepresents Christ’s holiness and gospel of Truth. Envy involves malice, hatred, falsehood, and slander—because we want something someone else possesses. We cannot increase in love if we are feeding the unrighteous spirit of envy.

Every human being wrestles with envy; believers experience the same struggles because no one loves perfectly. We have all felt resentment and feelings of jealousy watching someone achieve more or be more successful than us. Yet, Jesus—Wisdom—condemns this attitude, because it damages our souls—minds, wills, and emotions. Internally, envy attacks our faith and left unchecked our faith can shrivel and dry up. We must be content and filled with the love of God, confidence, creative ideas, and a sense of well-being; otherwise, envy will come and cause a soul to be ungrateful to God and resentful in life. Trust in the Lord and place your confidence in him—have an eternal perspective—because God knows the plans he has for his human creation! And, they are godly and good! May we learn this as a people, as the Church, and as a nation.

Proverbs 14 NLT
1
A wise woman builds her home,
    but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.

Those who follow the right path fear the Lord;
    those who take the wrong path despise him.

A fool’s proud talk becomes a rod that beats him,
    but the words of the wise keep them safe.

Without oxen a stable stays clean,
    but you need a strong ox for a large harvest.

An honest witness does not lie;
    a false witness breathes lies.

A mocker seeks wisdom and never finds it,
    but knowledge comes easily to those with understanding.

Stay away from fools,
    for you won’t find knowledge on their lips.

The prudent understand where they are going,
    but fools deceive themselves.

Fools make fun of guilt,
    but the godly acknowledge it and seek reconciliation.
10 
Each heart knows its own bitterness,
    and no one else can fully share its joy.
11 
The house of the wicked will be destroyed,
    but the tent of the godly will flourish.
12 
There is a path before each person that seems right,
    but it ends in death.
13 
Laughter can conceal a heavy heart,
    but when the laughter ends, the grief remains.
14 
Backsliders get what they deserve;
    good people receive their reward.
15 
Only simpletons believe everything they’re told!
    The prudent carefully consider their steps.
16 
The wise are cautious and avoid danger;
    fools plunge ahead with reckless confidence.
17 
Short-tempered people do foolish things,
    and schemers are hated.
18 
Simpletons are clothed with foolishness,
    but the prudent are crowned with knowledge.
19 
Evil people will bow before good people;
    the wicked will bow at the gates of the godly.
20 
The poor are despised even by their neighbors,
    while the rich have many “friends.”
21 
It is a sin to belittle one’s neighbor;
    blessed are those who help the poor.
22 
If you plan to do evil, you will be lost;
    if you plan to do good, you will receive unfailing love and faithfulness.
23 
Work brings profit,
    but mere talk leads to poverty!
24 
Wealth is a crown for the wise;
    the effort of fools yields only foolishness.
25 
A truthful witness saves lives,
    but a false witness is a traitor.
26 
Those who fear the Lord are secure;
    he will be a refuge for their children.
27 
Fear of the Lord is a life-giving fountain;
    it offers escape from the snares of death.
28 
A growing population is a king’s glory;
    a prince without subjects has nothing.
29 
People with understanding control their anger;
    a hot temper shows great foolishness.
30 
A peaceful heart leads to a healthy body;
    jealousy is like cancer in the bones.
31 
Those who oppress the poor insult their Maker,
    but helping the poor honors him.
32 
The wicked are crushed by disaster,
    but the godly have a refuge when they die.
33 
Wisdom is enshrined in an understanding heart;
    wisdom is not found among fools.
34 
Godliness makes a nation great,
    but sin is a disgrace to any people.
35 
A king rejoices in wise servants
    but is angry with those who disgrace him.

Prayer: Lord, thank you for your perfect example of love, so we can identify the works of evil that come to attack and destroy it. Thank you for forgiving us and liberating us from the foolishness of envy. We believe in your selfless love, Jesus, and we place our confidence in your constructive ability to bring satisfaction and contentment to each of our lives. Thank you for inviting us to partner with you in your constructive righteous work. We place our hope in you and continue to look toward your Wisdom to keep us delivered from the destructive work of evil each day. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-14-25

There is a tendency in the fallen flesh of human nature to speak lies. We may want those things we are saying to be true; even repeat them often. Although it may never be the Truth, we can choose to believe what we are saying and pretty soon we are convinced a lie is the truth—deceived. Words released into the atmosphere travel in either a godly or ungodly direction—life or death is in the tongue (Prov 18:21). Jesus refers to the devil as the ‘father of lies,’ because he hates the Truth. In fact, Jesus told the Pharisees—who kept telling themselves they were righteous—they were actually children of the devil (John 8:44). They lacked Wisdom and found themselves deceived. It’s why they did not recognize the Truth standing before them.

Yesterday, in Jen’s devotional reading from Proverbs 12, Solomon shared instructions on words and speech with his son. Words are power and teaching our children—no matter what age—to honor their word, tell the truth, and control their tongue is extending great Wisdom to them. It is easy for a thought to come into our heads and find it quickly exiting our mouths. However, we are wise when we capture those thoughts and pause to consider the truth, as well as the consequences the words may bring before speaking them. Not every thought is a godly one that exalts Christ—Wisdom (2 Cor 10:5). If we want to positively influence others with the Spirit of God, we need to pay attention to what comes out of our mouths. We need to do this and we need to teach our children and grandchildren to follow. In Scripture, there is no such thing as a ‘white lie’ or harmless lie being acceptable to God. If it’s not the truth, we should simply shut our mouths.

Today in Proverbs 13, Solomon spends more time sharing about the importance words, discipline, controlling the tongue, forming a strong work ethic, and honest financial gain, because it increases a person in Wisdom. Worldly success is temporary and is of very little value when facing a crisis, tragedy, or natural disaster. In seconds, life can change and the financial security we may build our lives upon can be gone; starting over is all that is left.

For those who build their lives on the foundation of Wisdom, they never really go backwards. In fact, I believe many things that seek to destroy the Christ follower actually become a catalyst for miraculous gain; becomes a spiritual promotion to something even better. Our godly attitudes, as well as the way we look at the life and promise of Christ, will bring abundant growth no matter what happens (John 10:10).

Are you good at accepting advice or just giving it? Most of the time we may prefer to be the one giving advice to everyone else; however, if we are wise we will also be a receiver of advice. Never forget we can be blind to our own weaknesses and the snares of the enemy. Therefore, Solomon encourages us to surround ourselves with godly people, so we can speak Wisdom into one another’s lives. Wisdom is reciprocal and the truth sets us free!

Proverbs 13 NLT [NOTE: Amplified Bible definitions in brackets]
1
A wise child accepts [and is the result of] a parent’s discipline;
    a mocker refuses to listen to correction.

Wise words will win you a good meal,
    but treacherous people have an appetite for violence.

Those who control their tongue [think before speaking] will have a long life;
    opening your mouth [without thinking] can ruin everything.

Lazy people want [have an appetite for] much but get little,
    but those who [willingly] work hard will prosper.

The godly hate lies;
    the wicked cause shame and disgrace.

Godliness [right standing w/God] guards the path of the blameless,
    but the evil are misled by sin.

Some who are poor pretend to be rich;
    others who are rich pretend to be poor.

The rich can pay a ransom for their lives,
    but the poor won’t even get threatened [by the envious].

The life [within] of the godly is full of light [grows brighter] and joy,
    but the light of the wicked will be snuffed out [temporary].
10 
Pride leads to conflict;
    those who take advice are wise.
11 
Wealth from get-rich-quick schemes quickly disappears;
    wealth from [honestly] hard work grows over time.
12 
Hope deferred makes the heart sick,
    but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.
13 
People who despise advice [wise counsel of God] are asking for trouble;
    those who [reverently] respect a command will succeed.
14 
The instruction of the wise is like a life-giving fountain;
    those who accept it avoid the snares of death.
15 
A person with good sense is respected;
    a treacherous [unfaithful] person is headed for destruction.
16 
Wise people think before they act;
    [closed-minded] fools don’t—and even brag about their foolishness.
17 
An unreliable messenger stumbles into trouble,
    but a reliable messenger brings healing.
18 
If you ignore criticism, you will end in poverty and disgrace;
    if you accept correction, you will be honored.
19 
It is pleasant to see dreams come true,
    but fools refuse to turn from evil to attain them [things they have planned].
20 
Walk [as a companion] with the wise and become wise;
    associate with fools and get in trouble.
21 
Trouble [adversity] chases sinners,
    while blessings reward the righteous.
22 
Good people leave an inheritance to their grandchildren,
    but the sinner’s wealth passes to the godly.
23 
A poor person’s farm may produce much food,
    but [without protection] injustice sweeps it all away.
24 
Those who spare the rod of discipline hate their children.
    Those who love their children care enough to discipline them [with love and wisdom].
25 
The [consistently] godly eat to their hearts’ content,
    but the belly of the wicked goes hungry.

Prayer: Lord, thank you for this lesson on Wisdom and Truth. Today, we ask for Wisdom to guide our thoughts; help us with a spirit of discernment so we can identify the truth from a lie. As well, we ask you, Holy Spirit, to help us tame our tongues so we are careful with what we release by speech. Lord, you told the Pharisees they would be held accountable for every thoughtless or unhelpful word spoken. Convict us so we will follow the advice of Wisdom and speak the Truth in Love. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-12-25

When we look at certain words in Scripture, we may just think about them in light of a modern dictionary definition. However, it is always wise to seek a [biblical definition] of words when we are reading Scripture. Words like humility [obedience to God], honesty [following Truth], sensible [self-control], trustworthy [faithful/dependable], and integrity [wholeness in belief and action] all describe the nature of our Savior—the Wisdom of God. These are righteous virtues and very pleasing to our Father. Therefore, these are perfect character goals for us to value; we should ask the Spirit to help us grow more spiritually mature this year in these areas.

In our passage today, Solomon spends time covering these wonderful virtues and we need to let him challenge us. As well, I want to highlight something he covers which is a very dangerous temptation for human beings: Greed [excessive and selfish desires]. Greed may be easy to see in others, but it is very difficult to see in ourselves. We do not want to think of ourselves as not being content even though we want more and more all the time. You know, bigger TV, newer cars, the latest electronics; we just crave a few more things, right?

Greed is foolish because it hurts us and the people around us. Greed breads workaholics who miss meaningful opportunities with family and friends. The Bible describes greed as “deadly” (1 Tim 6:10). It is deceitful in that it steers us away from our true worship and oneness with God. Greed is a false god and is not at all trustworthy.

Greed isn’t how much money we have; it is an insatiable craving for riches and things that is the problem. Hoarding is based on greed. It is all right to want money, a house, provisions for our families, but do we need more and bigger things in order to be happy? Our trust must be in God’s love and generosity toward us not in money and what it can do for us. Remember, Timothy reminds us the danger of the last days is people loving only themselves and their money, so we definitely want to guard our hearts from greed (2 Tim 3:2).

God’s Word teaches the Lord is our Provider—he causes us to gain wealth through integrity—and he knows what we need. God simply wants us to be wise with managing every area of our lives. To step into greed is to walk in unbelief. The only cure or antidote is believing the Lord and his grace is enough; when we believe this we become content. If we walk by the Spirit, we will not seek to fulfill the ungodly desires of our flesh (Gal 5:16).

Proverbs 11 NLT
1
The Lord detests the use of dishonest scales,
    but he delights in accurate weights.

Pride leads to disgrace,
    but with humility comes wisdom.

Honesty [wisdom] guides good people;
    dishonesty destroys treacherous people.

Riches won’t help on the day of judgment,
    but right living can save you from death.

The godly are directed by honesty;
    the wicked fall beneath their load of sin.

The godliness of good people rescues them;
    the ambition of treacherous people traps them.

When the wicked die, their hopes die with them,
    for they rely on their own feeble strength.

The godly are rescued from trouble,
    and it falls on the wicked instead.

With their words, the godless destroy their friends,
    but knowledge will rescue the righteous.
10 
The whole city celebrates when the godly succeed;
    they shout for joy when the wicked die.
11 
Upright citizens are good for a city and make it prosper,
    but the talk of the wicked tears it apart.
12 
It is foolish to belittle one’s neighbor;
    a sensible person keeps quiet. [wisdom]
13 
A gossip goes around telling secrets,
    but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence. [wisdom]
14 
Without wise leadership, a nation falls;
    there is safety in having many advisers.
15 
There’s danger in putting up security for a stranger’s debt;
    it’s safer not to guarantee another person’s debt.
16 
A gracious woman gains respect,
    but ruthless men gain only wealth.
17 
Your kindness will reward you,
    but your cruelty will destroy you.
18 
Evil people get rich for the moment,
    but the reward of the godly will last.
19 
Godly people find life;
    evil people find death.
20 
The Lord detests people with crooked hearts,
    but he delights in those with integrity. [wisdom]
21 
Evil people will surely be punished,
    but the children of the godly will go free.
22 
A beautiful woman who lacks discretion [wisdom]
    is like a gold ring in a pig’s snout.
23 
The godly can look forward to a reward,
    while the wicked can expect only judgment.
24 
Give freely and become more wealthy;
    be stingy and lose everything.
25 
The generous will prosper;
    those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.
26 
People curse those who hoard their grain,
    but they bless the one who sells in time of need.
27 
If you search for good, you will find favor;
    but if you search for evil, it will find you!
28 
Trust in your money and down you go!
    But the godly flourish like leaves in spring.
29 
Those who bring trouble on their families inherit the wind.
    The fool will be a servant to the wise.
30 
The seeds of good deeds become a tree of life;
    a wise person wins friends.
31 
If the righteous are rewarded here on earth,
    what will happen to wicked sinners?

Prayer: Lord, Solomon shares many of your ways of Wisdom with us today. We pray to internalize the Truth and grow in godliness rather than reap the negative consequences from demanding our own way. Wisdom comes with humility or obedience to you, so we bow our hearts and ask for your guidance and blessing. Help us be people who run from greed. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-11-25

There are so many areas of our lives where we need copious amounts of Wisdom. I am eternally grateful for Jesus who has been made Wisdom for us, because I need him all the time! Jesus becomes our Wisdom with how we work (ethic), how we manage our money, what words come out of our mouths, how we handle our relationships, how we parent and grandparent…essentially how we live our whole lives seven days a week.

In our reading in Proverbs today, we begin a new section but just like Chapters 1-9 Solomon continues to contrast two paths for his son: The Way of Wisdom and the Way of Folly. These proverbs are randomly placed yet keep in mind Solomon is still seeking to get practical wisdom to his son. Solomon is following God’s command in Deuteronomy 6 to teach his son to be mindful of God’s laws of love all day long; essentially in every area of life. Basically, think about the fact that Solomon is just wanting to cover all kinds of topics that will confront his son for which he will need Wisdom any given day.

As we invest time in Chapter 10, please read our passage through the eyes of Christ’s love. Believers are blood-bought adopted sons and daughters of God. We have been made a part of God’s family because of Jesus, so please focus on who you really are and see this passage through the eyes of a Lord who adores you and wants to help you grow and live in a way that is righteous.

Idolatry is when we put anything ahead of God; it is misdirected worship. God instructs his people, “I am the Lord your God, and you must not have any other god but me” (Ex 20:2-3). Quite frankly, idolatry is a huge temptation for every human being even believers. Idolatry can sneak in to influence our attitude about work and commitment causing us to be bitter, how we view money and giving to God, how we talk to others and knowingly harm them, and idolatry can even be an attitude parents have about their children because they choose not to discipline them.

There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus, he came to save us (John 3:16-17), so there is only growth ahead of us. Following the Voice of Truth is how the Father is progressively helping us conform to the image of Christ; ongoing salvation in helping us live holy lives. Knowing these things and having them in our hearts when we read, should fill us with joy at the goodness of God to be with us—Immanuel. When we live by faith in the Son of God, obedience should be our response that leads us into a lifestyle of genuinely worshiping the Lord! Whatever we do each day it should be for the glory of God (1 Cor 10:31). Father knows how life works best to remain eternally joyful. So, let’s dig in to these ‘truths for living’ (proverbs).

Proverbs 10 NLT The Proverbs of Solomon
1 The proverbs of Solomon:
A wise child brings joy to a father;
    a foolish child brings grief to a mother.

Tainted wealth has no lasting value,
    but right living can save your life.

The Lord will not let the godly go hungry,
    but he refuses to satisfy the craving of the wicked.

Lazy people are soon poor;
    hard workers get rich.

A wise youth harvests in the summer,
    but one who sleeps during harvest is a disgrace.

The godly are showered with blessings;
    the words of the wicked conceal violent intentions.

We have happy memories of the godly,
    but the name of a wicked person rots away.

The wise are glad to be instructed,
    but babbling fools fall flat on their faces.

People with integrity walk safely,
    but those who follow crooked paths will be exposed.
10 
People who wink at wrong cause trouble,
    but a bold reproof promotes peace.
11 
The words of the godly are a life-giving fountain;
    the words of the wicked conceal violent intentions.
12 
Hatred stirs up quarrels,
    but love makes up for all offenses.
13 
Wise words come from the lips of people with understanding,
    but those lacking sense will be beaten with a rod.
14 
Wise people treasure knowledge,
    but the babbling of a fool invites disaster.
15 
The wealth of the rich is their fortress;
    the poverty of the poor is their destruction.
16 
The earnings of the godly enhance their lives,
    but evil people squander their money on sin.
17 
People who accept discipline are on the pathway to life,
    but those who ignore correction will go astray.
18 
Hiding hatred makes you a liar;
    slandering others makes you a fool.
19 
Too much talk leads to sin.
    Be sensible and keep your mouth shut.
20 
The words of the godly are like sterling silver;
    the heart of a fool is worthless.
21 
The words of the godly encourage many,
    but fools are destroyed by their lack of common sense.
22 
The blessing of the Lord makes a person rich,
    and he adds no sorrow with it.
23 
Doing wrong is fun for a fool,
    but living wisely brings pleasure to the sensible.
24 
The fears of the wicked will be fulfilled;
    the hopes of the godly will be granted.
25 
When the storms of life come, the wicked are whirled away,
    but the godly have a lasting foundation. (JESUS!)
26 
Lazy people irritate their employers,
    like vinegar to the teeth or smoke in the eyes.
27 
Fear of the Lord lengthens one’s life,
    but the years of the wicked are cut short.
28 
The hopes of the godly result in happiness,
    but the expectations of the wicked come to nothing.
29 
The way of the Lord is a stronghold to those with integrity,
    but it destroys the wicked.
30 
The godly will never be disturbed,
    but the wicked will be removed from the land.
31 
The mouth of the godly person gives wise advice,
    but the tongue that deceives will be cut off.
32 
The lips of the godly speak helpful words,
    but the mouth of the wicked speaks perverse words.

Prayer: Lord, thank you for the discipline you bring to us as your children. We need your instruction, as well as your correction. Help us to cast down every form of idolatry, so we can worship you in Spirit and Truth, as well as live for your glory. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Daily Devotional from Pastor Mary 01-10-25

In our readings from the Book of Proverbs, Solomon has spoken metaphorically about “two women” who are competing for his son’s affections—Wisdom [Christ] and folly [satan]. It is a choice between righteousness and unrighteousness. It is also a choice between life and death: living in the blessing of God or living for a cursed world. Both offer a ‘party.’ Getting an invitation to a party is usually very exciting. One knows the party will likely offer socializing with friends, food, drink, and entertainment.

Our Chapter 9 reading today, is the climax to the introduction of the Book of Proverbs. It really sums up everything we have read thus far. Solomon asks his son, as well as you and me, “Whom will you love?” We have a choice to make in life if we will desire Wisdom—the marriage feast with Jesus—or folly—the world.

In Matthew 22, Jesus is teaching his disciples through a parable about a king and the wedding party of his son—an invitation went out saying the feast was prepared; everyone was invited but most ignored the invitation (vv. 1-4). To attend the party of Wisdom, we must be willing to embrace humility, repentance, and walk in the ways of God—good judgment. Jesus invites the world to his party and his meal is not for those who think they are wise, it is for those who know they are fools and simply want to grow in Wisdom.

It is all about an invitation—a request to participate. We can only accept and participate in one ‘party,’ because the feasts are going on simultaneously. According to Solomon—who received God’s gift of Wisdom—our behavior demonstrates our decision for which party we chose to attend. Solomon uses vv. 7-12 as examples of Wisdom’s teaching contrasted with folly [idolatry/apostasy/unfaithfulness to God]. For example, a mocker cannot be corrected; a wise person will welcome correction because he or she knows it will make one wiser. Choosing Wisdom causes us to grow in discernment. How do you handle criticism? Do you get angry and defensive or are you willing to listen and learn? Behavior reveals what we truly believe. We cannot divide our sacred and secular life—we are one new creation in Christ.

There are many decision we make in life that have huge implications. When we begin to read Chapters 10-31, we will see to be able to follow the Wisdom those passages offer, we must make a decision to trust Christ to lead and empower us. He is the Truth—the food and drink we must consume. Foolishness is basically not being able to see the connection between our actions and the consequences they bring our lives.

Proverbs 9 NLT
Wisdom has built her house;
    she has carved its seven columns.

She has prepared a great banquet,
    mixed the wines, and set the table.

She has sent her servants to invite everyone to come.
    She calls out from the heights overlooking the city.

“Come in with me,” she urges the simple.
    To those who lack good judgment, she says,

“Come, eat my food,
    and drink the wine I have mixed.

Leave your simple ways behind, and begin to live;
    learn to use good judgment.”

Anyone who rebukes a mocker will get an insult in return.
    Anyone who corrects the wicked will get hurt.

So don’t bother correcting mockers;
    they will only hate you.
But correct the wise,
    and they will love you.

Instruct the wise,
    and they will be even wiser.
Teach the righteous,
    and they will learn even more.
10 
Fear of the Lord is the foundation of wisdom.
    Knowledge of the Holy One results in good judgment.
11 
Wisdom will multiply your days
    and add years to your life.
12 
If you become wise, you will be the one to benefit.
    If you scorn wisdom, you will be the one to suffer.

Folly Calls for a Hearing
13 
The woman named Folly is brash.
    She is ignorant and doesn’t know it.
14 
She sits in her doorway
    on the heights overlooking the city.
15 
She calls out to men going by
    who are minding their own business.
16 
“Come in with me,” she urges the simple.
    To those who lack good judgment, she says,
17 
“Stolen water is refreshing;
    food eaten in secret tastes the best!”
18 
But little do they know that the dead are there.
    Her guests are in the depths of the grave.[Scheol]

Prayer: Lord, so many times we think about unbelievers being the only ones who live foolishly, but as believers we confess today we know we need to grow in Wisdom. Thank you for your patience with us as your children. Help us to approach today in humility and honesty before you. Correct us when necessary and help us receive it with gratitude and repentance. Holy Spirit, guide us toward a greater knowledge of the Holy One. In Jesus’ name. Amen.