In our previous two devotions this week, we have focused on the freedom we have in our motives, attitudes, words, and actions. We should be so grateful to the Spirit for helping us in those areas, because Scripture reminds us God counts our careless words (Mat 12:36). Words are not empty, they carry a message. Words are powerful and can be our salvation; yet, words can also be our destruction, because we reap what we sow. Did you ever think about the fact that God measures our words?
In our passage today, we dive into a psalm written by David. He is struggling with how to respond to the words of criticism he is receiving from others. Now, we cannot control what others do with their words; however, we can choose how we are going to respond to them. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks, so when someone is mean with their mouths, it is an indication of what is living in their hearts (Luke 6:45). Truth comes from godly character. Lies and condemnation come from people with an ungodly character. So, think about how you talk to others.
That being said, it is also important to be able to take constructive criticism. Our flesh wants to take on a defensive posture when we receive criticism. So, we must pray and ask God to give us wisdom and humility in order to listen carefully, because every human being has blind spots. The Spirit will lead us to the Truth, as well as teach us more about our hearts, motives, and how to use our words. If there is merit in the criticism, then we must receive the correction, be respectful, and express gratitude. God uses his people to sharpen one another in the Truth, so we must be prepared for this time of guidance and constructive criticism (Pro 27:17).
“For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart (Heb 4:12). Because God desires to be Lord of our Words, we need to ask the Spirit to help us keep our words beneficial to the glory of God, be truth for our hearts, and a blessing to others. Before we speak, let’s remember God measures our words.
Psalm 141: 1-5 NLT A psalm of David.
1
O Lord, I am calling to you. Please hurry!
Listen when I cry to you for help!
2
Accept my prayer as incense offered to you,
and my upraised hands as an evening offering.
3
Take control of what I say, O Lord,
and guard my lips.
4
Don’t let me drift toward evil
or take part in acts of wickedness.
Don’t let me share in the delicacies
of those who do wrong.
5
Let the godly strike me!
It will be a kindness!
If they correct me, it is soothing medicine.
Don’t let me refuse it.
Prayer: Lord, please take control of our words and put a watch over what leaves our lips. Help us choose our words carefully, as well as be willing to listen to the constructive words of others. Use all of it for your purposes and for your glory. In Jesus’ name. Amen.